Monday, June 13, 2022

Am I frustrated? Yes, I am.

 Am I frustrated? Yes, I am.

Frustrated cuz all my life belief that “Justice” was a human self-born mental and emotional state of been. As I grew up, and the most cherished desires were never fulfilled, some form of frustration has been born and taking over the space for “Justice.”

What is meant here:

Human existence is a form of survival, but not existence alone if not together with other human beings. So, to say, I have been thinking all my life that if someone does the thing needed to establish an end, that end turns into a reality. This is the case: a young boy or girl, during his/her biological development, the psych development goes a la par in such a way that certain human state of thinking takes root, and it develops via learning, observation, and acts. The first thing learned is the understanding of the environment with no titles, this is, no matter what the individual does, it was to be understood as a moral or immoral act.

A human act would bring at its end a reward or punishment.

Who gives that reward or punishment? Well, the social group in which the individual is developing as a human. Social groups create diverse needs that go along with the biological needs of that individual.

See it this way: a child is hungry, the person in charge of the existence of that child is the one that takes care of his/her feedings. That same person has another person who, together, does a social job needed by the social group and in turn gets pay for that work performed. The child been taken care of does not know that the   given to them is the product of a “labour” performed by others they learnt to call “ma, and pa.”  As the child keeps growing, they start learning that people do work in order to support their needs yet does know that those needs are biological ones together with needs of pleasure just inserted into them by the group they live within and their biology. The same goes for social habits, social education, and behaviours. There are a ton of needs and learnt behaviours that the caretaker of the child never learnt yet they know they exist.

One human behaviour is “Greed” …others are lies and truth and so on and on.

As the child develops, it my happens that the ones racing him/her, themselves lack or never experienced one of those human state of been.

Because of the social “Status,” if the caretaker never got it or experienced it …then never taught to the growing child who turns into an adult missing those qualities and needs.

Schooling is the thing that gives the child what they need and cannot be provided by their caretakers. There are many cases that the care taker does not see the importance of schooling but work to subsist or they are unable to give that to them cuz the social group they live, does not provide it to them due to many way the leaders of their social group, too, did not had it or grew with so much greed, that it is never satisfy and/or think they, the social leader, knows better what the group needs than the group themselves (dictatorship and/or malice).

…there are so many situations that intervene and work in the development of a human social status. But there are special situations that even though as a human is born within it, the social status does not interfere too much with the human development, yet the human does all the effort needed, the human never gets to the end of the tunnel due to the way the social group of the human gets its development, it is in many ways many times controlled by “absolute idiots” that have some form of authority in the group that end up affecting many humans belonging to the same society, such as discrimination, greedy, evil competition, malice and the “who cares” attitude of some politicians and even non-politicians with strong influence in the group such as “Judges, police people, strangers, teachers and many others of the bunch that  are absolute idiots within others of the same class that do their job with love, knowledge and dedication.

The child, as it turns into an adult, turns to be a nobody of a person, just as one more of the social group even he/she did the most effort to be a highly productive social entity.

Humans, all …have at least three types of developmental stages that work all together; let us see:

1                    Biological

2                    socials

3                    intuitions

4                    …and knowledge

5                    And others.

 

On the first, biological, is the type of development that start with the union of a male cell and a female cell (reproduction).

On the second, Social, is learning by observation.

On the third, intuition, is what people call: smelling, sight, feelings, vision (stereo vision) and what is good and bad.

Then follows knowledge. Knowledge uses all the first three and is controlled by the environment.

On others, include a mix of the first, the second, the third and the fourth.

Now comes others which is composed by all four of them, they are when the child, as an adult, takes decision by his/her own and either becomes productive to the society or evil to it …It all depends which of them, the developmental, interacts on the human adult. If the biological one is too strong, the human is much of an animal, the wild one, then a human, the intelligent one.

If the social is too strong, they turn into either heroes, or criminals and the so-called martyrs and saints.

If intuition is dominant, intuition is based on all types of developments one, two, three, and four.

Knowledge is the most complex one, it could be self-acquired, learnt, or created by the individual involved in it, it is call ingenuity or invention.

On others, there is applied science and science itself. Science alone creates nothing but, when applied, creates social development, power, progress, sadness, and happiness …It makes human a totally different animal than the domesticated or wild ones.

As an individual goes deeper in the mixing of those three types of developmental stages, increasingly the adult creates a much more complex philosophical thinking. Be it known that philosophers are like that even they never submitted their thinking into strong test to see the result …tests, here is not used but, comparison; comparison answers many tests, and happens most of the time it explains very well the philosophy of knowledge …that is why “Science was born out of Philosophy and social progress out of applied science.

Here, frustration comes out due to all the above human self-born mental and emotional state of been.

There are diverse types of frustration: the one never achieved cuz the individual never worked for it but still wants to get what should be at the end of the tunnel as others had succeeded for it. It, here it is a tern to be discuss in other topic of discussion but both types of frustration might, and not necessarily, end up with intention-suicidal-acts. This is a dangerous state of mind cuz many of them are caused by biological malfunctions based on appearance and or human development in the social group. Some humans are confused and commits, erroneously the act of killing themselves or killing others. Do not mix it up with the fraise of been “confuse” which is when a human does not know which decision comes after or what the other person or things is signaling, not been understood, comprehended, or is not followed by the listener, here, the listener is correct to ask: “explain,” to the one talking.

Many people feel and are frustrated but they accept it. They continue living, helping and mostly, they try to be util to the social group or the other individuals next.

All humans contain nine psycho-social illness which exists in all of them that turns into emotional self-mental imbalance, seen as mental illness when one, two or more of them exceed in degree of state that is noticed too much as integral part of most decision taking and they are

1.  Schizophrenia.

2.  extreme fantasy

     

3.  extreme illusion

4. extreme self-esteem

 

5

6

7

8

…and nine

All the above are psycho-social illness.

Most dictators have either one or a combination of more of them. They feel been “Grandiose doted people,” a must to save the people they control and only them, and only they are “The One” (God-destined or entitled, or semi-god). These people are mostly dictators, as if others are part of a business they own, it happens with kings and many social leaders, of course, not all …and there are too many followers, which here are called: absolute idiots).

 

To be continued. 

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